#010 Zoey the Chinese Virgin (Part 4)
Zoey deals with having to reject her two previous dates: the doctor who ghosted her and “soft hands” Nick. She asks for her bestie's help in navigating the messy terrain of handing out rejections…
Note: This is a real story with real events, but the names have been changed and personal identifying information is always redacted in audio recordings and screenshots.
Warning: This is just a kink, and the content is meant for pleasure. If you are distressed, stop reading and seek help.
Zoey had her first kiss in the US after just a few days of being in the country. She was now attracted the most to the guy she had kissed, and she began to disregard the other two guys she’d been out with. The day after Zoey made out with the guy she liked, she got a text from Nick, the second guy she went out with whose hands she found to be too soft for her liking. Nick was the guy she wanted to friendzone and she had already asked me for help on how to do it.
She sent me a screenshot of their text exchange. She ignored his texts from 11 AM, and he desperately texted her again just a couple of hours later. His texts reeked of beta desperation. I suppose he was the kind of beta guy that just could not comprehend a simple fact: the reason Zoey didn’t text him back was because she was not into him. Guys like Nick somehow think that by texting more and more, Zoey is going to magically change her mind and start to like him.
It’s as if they don’t want to accept the sad reality of their rejection, so they keep texting the girl just to get a reply out of her, whatever that reply might be. What these guys don’t realize is that by being needy and texting more and more in the face of their ignoration, they’re only inevitably pushing the girl to hand out a hard rejection to get them to stop harassing her over text. Of course, to most beta guys, this is a devastating event if it happens, but to those betas that have learned to embrace their pathetic selves, it can be a very tasteful experience.