The structure of male submissive sexual fantasies: Giantess and tiny
The category that deals with sexual fantasies of giant women and tiny men, and how they intertwine with other kinks.
This is part of a series of essays that collectively survey male submissive kinks. Find the Table of contents here.
Macrophilia is the paraphilia concerned with great size differences between individuals, such as giant women and tiny men. When this paraphilia coincides with male masochism, it gives rise to a class of submissive sexual fantasies that stand out for the striking unrealistic character of their content. This category groups these fantastical desires. Due to the extraordinary nature of the worlds in which these fantasies take place, they are only bound by the limits of the creativity of the man who experiences them. Nonetheless, there are certain recurring aspects in all of them. Those aspects are surveyed here, including the different versions of the imagined size difference and its origin, the different attitudes the giant woman can have toward the tiny man, from caring to cruel, the giant woman’s state of being unaware of the tiny man, the crushing of the latter by the former, his entrapment in various scenarios, and his absorption or consumption by the giant woman in what is called vore.
Versions
The fantasies of great size differences come in two versions. Some men are drawn to scenarios that feature men of normal size and women who are enormous in comparison—proper giantesses. Other men are drawn to scenarios featuring women of normal size and men who are tiny—tiny men, known as tinies for short.
In both cases, the important element is the enormous size difference, where the man is so physically small that he can fit in the woman’s palm. In this text, I simply refer to “tiny men” and “giant women” but the aforementioned nuance should be kept in mind.
The fantasies also come in two versions to explain the size difference between the sexes. Some scenarios revolve around the supposed existence of giant women who roam around the world they cohabit with people of regular size but who are tiny in comparison.
In other scenarios, the man and the woman are initially regular humans but one of them suffers the unfortunate effect of a magical device or a failed scientific experiment. If it is the woman, she is grown to a gigantic size; if it is the man, he is shrunk to become a tiny.
The shrinking process can be instantaneous or progressive. In the latter case, the man who fantasizes about his transformation derives sexual pleasure from seeing his body being shrunk over a certain period of time. Men who fantasize about enormous size differences can be very particular about the measurements involved, having a specific ideal size for themselves as tiny men and for the women as giantesses.
The fantasies again come in two different versions depending on the attitude that the giant woman takes vis-à-vis the tiny men. She can be sweet and nurturing to them, almost like a mother figure, handling them delicately and caring for them, the fragile and vulnerable creatures that they are in this fantastical world of enormous size differences.
Alternatively, the woman can be dominating and cruel to the tinies, toying with them and terrorizing them for her amusement. The tiny men become helpless as they try to evade an unfortunate fate brought about by the domineering giantess.
Romance
Some fantasies involving giant women and tiny men are conventional in the sense that they feature the courtship, romance, and sex that is considered to be normal in human relationships. The only unconventional element, of course, is the enormous size difference between the two.
In these mild fantasies, the tiny man can go out with the woman on dates, express his attraction toward her, and confess his romantic feelings for her. These feelings are reciprocated by the giant woman who, against all odds, takes an interest in the man despite his tiny size.
In some fantasies, the man and the woman are regular humans in a relationship. The man is then shrunk to a tiny size or the woman grown to gigantic proportions but the previous relationship continues in the new dynamic of size difference.
These fantasies always include an element of nurture and care on the part of the giant woman for the tiny man who is vulnerable and fragile. The enormous size discrepancy leads to sex acts that are different than usual. Sex typically revolves around the pleasuring of the giant woman by the tiny man. He tries, as best he can, to please her with his tiny body. The size difference allows for fantastical ways in which he can do this, notably by entering her vagina and stimulating her from the inside.
Unaware
Due to the enormous size difference between tiny men and giant women, it is not easy for the latter to always notice the former in the world they both inhabit. In the language of the men who have these fantasies, the giant women are said to be “unaware” of the tiny men.
The tinies navigate the world, observing the giantesses, sometimes even spying on them inappropriately such as when the women are changing or masturbating. The tiny men can do their best to conceal their presence in these scenarios but sometimes the giant women notice them.
When the tiny man is caught in an inappropriate situation, he can draw the ire of the giantess and inspire in her the desire to punish him for his transgression. The tiny can try to run away, attempting to evade the woman’s efforts at capturing him, but he inevitably fails as she catches on to him.
When he is captured, a great feeling of helplessness washes over the tiny man as he is tightly held in the giant woman’s palm. The thrill in the anticipation of the punishment to be inflicted can be very powerful as the tiny’s fate is left completely to the whims of the giantess.
Crushing
A common element in fantasies of giant women and tiny men revolves around the crushing of the latter by the former. In some fantasies where the giant woman is unaware of the tiny man, she ends up harming him by accident in one way or another. For example, she can accidentally sit or step on him, crushing him in the process.
Tiny men in this fantastical world have to live in a constant state of anxiety as they run away from the oblivious giantess, trying all they can to avoid being in the wrong place at the wrong time and suffering an accident that can, in the most extreme scenarios, end their existence.
If the giant woman is cruel, she can laugh at the tiny man after she crushes him, telling him she does not care in the least what happens to him as he is just an insignificant tiny who does not mean anything to her.
In other fantasies, the act of crushing is performed by the giantess on purpose, either for her own amusement or as punishment for the tiny for failing to obey her or for some other supposed transgression. For example, the tiny man can spy on the giantess in the intimacy of her own bedroom. She catches him in the act and inflicts the punishment on him once he is captured.
Fantasies of being crushed vary in the violence of the outcome. The crushing can lead to great harm to the tiny man in some scenarios, leaving him with broken tiny bones or even dead. Alternatively, the crushing can be imagined to cause no real harm to the tiny. He simply experiences a soft feeling of being squished but is otherwise left completely intact and healthy.
In crushing fantasies, the woman’s feet can take center stage if they are the body part that inflicts the crushing on the tiny. The sight of the giant female foot as the woman raises it above the tiny man can cause a great deal of arousal as he anticipates its coming down on his fragile body.
Aside from feet, the giantess can crush the tiny man with numerous other body parts, including under her armpit, between her thighs, under or between her buttocks, and between her breasts. Any imaginable way to crush the tiny with the body of the giantess can become the subject of a crushing fantasy.
Entrapment
Another prominent theme in fantasies of giant women and tiny men is the physical entrapment of the latter in various scenarios. Since the men are of tiny size, it is easy for them to become trapped. This can, for example, be a consequence of crushing, as the tiny is trapped under the woman’s foot or in another body part of hers. The tiny can also be trapped between her toes or in the clothes she is wearing, like her shoes, her socks, and her underwear, in which case he is tightly squeezed between her body and the garment.
In fantasies of physical entrapment, the tiny is brought very close to the giant woman’s body. Thus, he experiences her in a very intimate way. The body odor of the giantess can play a prominent role in these fantasies. For example, if the tiny is trapped in the woman’s foot, he can be forced to inhale its smell. He experiences the scent that emanates from the foot many times more intensely due to the great discrepancy in body size.
The giantess can also decide to confine the tiny man in a small enclosed space, often in a container like a jar. From his small prison, he can observe the giantess but he is unable to escape unless she grants him his liberty back. The giantess can carry the jar around or even wear it on her person. She can keep the man confined for his own protection or for the pure pleasure of terrorizing him.
Vore
Another common element in fantasies of giant women and tiny men is the tiny’s consumption by the woman or his absorption into her body. This is known as “vore”, the abbreviation of vorarephilia. The tiny man can enter the giantess’s body through any of her orifices. This process of absorption can happen out of the man’s own volition or against his will.
The tiny can enter through the giant woman’s mouth. She can swallow him whole, in which case he can imagine himself traveling inside her body, an environment that can be even more hostile to endure and to survive in than the outside world. The tiny man can imagine making his way through the woman’s organs, exploring her insides like a labyrinth. He can also imagine his expulsion from her body by being spat out or excreted from her anus.
Alternatively, the giantess can chew the tiny man before eating him, crushing him into pieces with her enormous teeth. Such fantasies can involve gory details of the destruction of the tiny man’s body before the woman consumes him.
The tiny can also enter the woman’s body through her vagina, a fantasy that can be powerful in the man’s erotic imagination due to the extremely intimate nature of entering the woman’s private parts and coming into direct contact with her insides. This contact happens with the tiny’s whole body, given the size difference.
The thought of the tiny man’s submersion in the vaginal secretions can intensify the feeling of extraordinary intimacy. The process of being absorbed into the woman’s vagina is sometimes known as “unbirth”, in reference to the process of giving birth which happens in the reverse direction. The tiny man can imagine himself exploring the vagina as he would a cave. He can even make his way up to the uterus of the giantess and reside there.
In some fantasies, the giantess uses the tiny man as an object, especially for sexual purposes. She can grab him and use him to masturbate like a sex toy, rubbing her clitoris with his tiny body or using him for insertion into her vagina like a dildo. The woman can also shove the tiny man into her anus, effectively using him as a buttplug.
Other fantasies involve even more unrealistic scenarios, such as being absorbed into the woman’s mammary ducts through her nipples. Some fantasies of vore incorporate the kinks of soiling, such as when the tiny is covered in the woman’s saliva, in her vaginal secretions, or inserted into the anus or used as toilet paper.
Servitude
In this fantastical world of tiny men and giant women, some fantasies revolve around the servitude of the former to the latter. A giantess can be imagined to have an entire army of tiny men who serve her in some capacity in great numbers. The tiny men can be assigned roles and tasks to accomplish, such as doing the household chores.
Some fantasies play on the tensions that can possibly arise between the tiny servants and the giant woman who rules over them. The two parties can be imagined to have meetings to resolve their issues and arrive at a compromise. In these meetings, needless to say, the giantess has the upper hand. The tiny men can even be imagined to form something of a union to communicate more effectively with their giantess overlord.
Cuckolding
Some fantasies incorporate aspects of cuckolding the tiny with another man who is the same size as the giantess. Any conventional cuckolding fantasy can be transposed into this extraordinary world to apply to the tiny man. The size difference, however, opens up new avenues for fantasies as the tiny can be used by the giantess in a variety of ways for the purposes of cuckolding.
A few examples of these scenarios will serve to illustrate. The man can be shrunk to a tiny size as punishment before the woman cuckolds him. He can hang around in close proximity to the woman’s genitalia while she has sex with her bull, possibly even trapped inside the condom. The tiny can be shoved in the bull’s urethra and sucked out of it by the giantess’s mouth or he can be shoved in the woman’s vagina as she gets penetrated by the bull.
Pornography
It is not easy for pornographic actresses to make videos catering to the kink of giant women and tiny men. The simplest device is to work with angles, positioning the camera to give the illusion from the perspective of the viewer that the woman is bigger than she is.
The fantasy of shrinking can be simulated by progressively lowering the camera, mimicking the process of being shrunk to tiny size. The fantasies of crushing can be simulated simply by stepping on the camera or covering it with the appropriate body part. The thump that is produced when the microphone is hit simulates the sound of the crushing of the tiny man’s body.
Pornographic actresses also resort to miniature toy figures of tiny men that they hold and play with in a variety of ways to simulate what they would do with the viewer. Miniature scale models of cities and cars can serve the same purpose.
Some actresses resort to special visual effects to simulate the enormous size difference. Green screens allow the overlay of the woman on skyscrapers and other landscapes. These effects are for the most part done on a budget and the end result can be comical.
For this reason, men who have fantasies of giant women often resort to other types of pornography in which they can more readily suspend their disbelief. Such pornography that can more easily and faithfully reproduce the fantastical world of giantesses includes comics and animations and, nowadays, content generated by artificial intelligence.
This concludes a survey of the kinks of giantess and tiny. If you think something is missing from this overview, leave a comment and share your thoughts. You can also message me on Substack or on Reddit if you wish to remain anonymous and discuss privately.
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The line art in this essay’s card is by Georgian artist Dorian Chelios.