Queen Cindyrella: The woman who mesmerizes men through an AI avatar
Profiles of the women in Femdom who practice the art of satisfying men’s masochistic fantasies. Meet Queen Cindyrella, the woman who infuses life into an AI avatar through her mesmerizing voice.
If you’re a woman who ventures into the online world of Femdom, you face a tough choice. The best business decision for you is to reveal your full face to the internet. This choice, however, comes with unavoidable consequences. You have to accept the potential risk of being outed, not only for your sex work activities, but for the particular market you cater to with all its bizarre trappings. You also have to live with the possibility of being recognized by people in real life, having your image forever marred by the stigma of sex work, and having doors closed when it comes to your future career prospects in other industries.
If these hazards sound like a tough pill to swallow, you may choose instead to conceal your identity in order to maintain a certain degree of anonymity. You can rely completely on your voice and never show your true image, which ensures maximum anonymity but inevitably limits growth, or you can strike a compromise by only concealing the upper part of your face. Until recently, those would have been the only choices available to you as a prospective online dominatrix, but all of that is rapidly changing with the development of generative AI (artificial intelligence).
Some Femdom models are already harnessing these emerging technologies. One of them is Queen Cindyrella, a woman who uses her real voice but hides her true image behind an AI character. The fictional avatar, brought to life through her voice, has been captivating her fans with its foxy allure. Armed with this powerful technology, she’s been charting her path in the Femdom world and building her niche audience of submissive men.
In this exclusive profile, Queen Cindyrella—or Cindy, for short—shares her story of how she got into Femdom, reveals her motivations for using an AI avatar, offers a peek into the technical aspects of her work behind the scenes, and gives an illuminating glimpse into her activities as a unique type of online dominatrix.
✴️ A perfect fusion
Cindy defines herself as “a perfect fusion captured in a real woman, enhanced by the mesmerizing power of AI beauty.” She started her early explorations in the world of fetish in 2022, when she was making foot content using her real feet. For those activities, she came up with “Cindyrella” as a playful twist on the folktale character’s name, given the shoe connection.
At the end of that year, Cindy rebranded herself after deciding to specialize in Femdom, and she kept her original name. Now, she makes voice content catering to hypnosis and financial domination. “Using my words and my voice to guide someone into a profound trance, playing with their perception of reality, planting suggestions in their heads,” that’s what fascinates her in her line of work.
Cindy, like many Femdom models, went through different phases in exploring her style of domination. At first, she called herself Princess Cindyrella. With time, however, she realized she feels more authentic embodying the queen archetype, so she changed her moniker accordingly. “I decided that ‘queen’ suited me better,” she explains. “‘Princess’ seems to be representing a younger, more immature domme, whereas ‘queen’ feels more powerful and established,” she declares.
Her professional work counts more than 80 fetish productions so far, all erotic audios augmented by AI illustrations and animations. Most of her work delves into the deep pockets of the manipulation kinks in male masochism. In one audio, she’s a sexy stripper who drains you from your cash. In another, the girlfriend who hypnotizes you into becoming her pet. Then, she’s the intern who wrecks your marriage, the nurse who blackmails you, Medusa who imperils your hero’s journey, and the greedy goblin who enchants you in the woods.
She likes exploring different scenarios and characters. “At the beginning, I used to be surprised by some fetishes,” she admits, “but now, nothing really surprises me anymore.” Although the full gamut of kinks she can cater to is quite large, she chooses only those she feels comfortable with. “I won’t engage in fetishes that I don’t resonate with,” she firmly states. Her bread and butter, when it comes to kinks, is mind control—often referred to euphemistically as “mesmerize” or “mindfuck” on the adult platforms.
🔀 An intersection of two worlds
Cindy jumped on the AI bandwagon early, when it wasn’t as popular, and she quickly found herself comfortable in it. To her, the main attraction of AI is the anonymity it provides. “Privacy is important to me,” she explains, “hence hiding behind the AI account.” Indeed, Cindy succeeds in guarding her identity; even her ambiguous accent is hard to place. Not having to worry about exposing her image, Cindy can keep her personal life separate from her Femdom activities as she builds her audience.
Even though Cindy uses an AI character for the visuals, the voice in her clips is hers. “I’m not completely AI,” she’s quick to remark, “as I’m a real woman behind an AI avatar.” Cindy is essentially a voice performer who creates erotic audios of female domination. But the AI avatar, infused with life through her mesmerizing voice, undoubtedly helps her reach a broader audience for her content.
Voice performers used to hire artists to create artwork they could use as avatars, but the recent proliferation of generative AI has made it possible for anyone to make high-quality illustrations, at virtually no cost, thus eliminating the need to hire artists. “As long as the avatar is attractive, it doesn’t make such a difference,” Cindy states, referring to the various styles of avatars that are used, from 2D art to 3D illustrations. To her, it’s all about the personality she conveys through the character. “What does make a difference is the personality behind the avatar,” she confidently asserts.
“There’s also a false assumption that all AI or 2D accounts are led by men,” Cindy points out. Indeed, the tools of AI have made it possible for anyone to create female characters from scratch, generating both the visuals and the speech. Those accounts, entirely powered by AI, are indeed run by men in the grand majority of cases. But Queen Cindyrella is not fully AI; she’s a hybrid. “I’m on an intersection of two worlds somehow, contrary to profiles that are 100% AI,” she corrects the record.
Some of the men behind AI characters in Femdom are transparent about it, but the technological capabilities have also attracted indefatigable hustlers looking for every opportunity to run a scam. Indeed, it’s easier than ever for men to pose as female models online and swindle submissive men out of their money through elaborate and rapidly multiplying con jobs.
But even those profiles who aren’t run by women have their appeal to some submissive men who have a kink for being ripped off. These men indulge in a specific type of erotic humiliation in sending money to fake accounts evidently run by men. The idea of being tricked into sending money to an AI character who doesn’t exist, or being fooled into thinking that a catfish account impersonating a real model is actually her, is hot to some men.
🛒 A niche market
For Cindy, choosing to hide behind an AI avatar means competing with Femdom models who leverage their real image in the production of fetish clips and other types of content. “Part of our audience is overlapping,” she says. “We tap into similar psychological aspects of submission and control.” Although it might seem a disadvantage at first glance, Cindy doesn’t think hiding behind an AI avatar is much of an issue for submissive men. “Subs can be attracted by looks, but it’s the person behind them that they will truly submit to,” she claims.
Cindy’s subs mostly come in three varieties. Some of them look beyond the AI avatar and simply focus on her as a person. To them, it matters little that she uses AI visuals. “After some time, the differences between the real and the artificial blur,” Cindy explains. Others, however, are drawn to her precisely because she uses the AI avatar. “Some like the unknown and the novelty,” she reports. These men admire the avatar’s impossible aesthetics, shaped and chiseled to a perfection unattainable in real life. Their interest isn’t very different from the attraction some men have to animated pornography, like hentai.
The last variety of submissive men interested in Cindy are those looking to fulfill their fantasies of denial through her. These men derive pleasure from the idea that they don’t deserve real women. By interacting with Cindy through her AI avatar, they imagine themselves relegated to fake women who don’t exist in reality, something they experience as an erotic humiliation. “Submitting to a 2D or AI domme can be a fetish in itself,” Cindy explains. Catering to this kink is something she’s perfectly suited for.
Cindy has an unlikely advantage over traditional Femdom models. Her AI avatar opens up possibilities that flesh and bone cannot fulfill. “I like the versatility it gives,” says Cindy. “You can be so creative with it as it gives so many possibilities.” Cindy can make her avatar metamorphose into whichever character suits the intimate desires of her subs, no matter how mundane or fantastical. “I had custom orders about lamia, monster girl, spider girl”, she mentions. “I can transform into anyone and anything to fulfill someone’s fantasy. It’s pretty magical!”
Such requests are indeed harder to satisfy for models who use their real image, as they have to invest in costumes and special effects to portray different roles. For Cindy, however, it’s a different story. “I can sit in my comfy clothes and just write a prompt, and let AI do its magic,” she candidly shares. For her, producing content is a much less time-consuming affair than for traditional models. “I don’t need to change clothes, or do my hair and makeup.”
🚀 A rapid evolution
Cindy mostly uses free machine learning tools to generate her visuals, but she also resorts to paid software sometimes. Her use of AI makes her seem like a tech-savvy nerd behind the keyboard, but the learning curve wasn’t as hard as you’d imagine. “It was a trial and error method,” she recalls. “I watched and read some tutorials online, and tested a lot.” The effort paid off and now Cindy has a solid setup for her generative needs. “It sounds more complicated than it is,” she reassuringly notes.
Generative AI models are not without their difficulties. “It can be challenging sometimes to maintain a visually consistent avatar,” she admits, “even if I’m using the same prompt and settings every time.” Although her current avatar looks nothing like the one she started with, she managed to converge to art that conveys a single character, readily recognized by her fans. “I also like to experiment with different styles,” she adds.
This, of course, is just the beginning of what generative AI can offer models like Cindy. At first, she was only able to work with static illustrations, but the technological capabilities are rapidly expanding. “It has evolved lately,” she reports. “I’m able to add some movement and animations.” Perhaps in the future, she’ll be able to produce full-length video clips with her AI avatar. “It’s getting better and better, though, so I’m looking forward to see what’s next,” she comments.
Cindy can also use AI to generate the scripts for her clips, but she eschews this option. Although she sometimes uses language models to create a general frame, she never relies on them for the complete script. “It can be pretty limited,” she explains, “especially when it comes to explicit content.” But the sexual nature of the scripts is not the only impediment. “Some language patterns and words are often repeated,” she adds, “which makes the text sound unnatural.”
This means that Cindy has to rely on her own writing skills for the production of her audios, or on hiring the services of scriptwriters—for the time being, at least. She herself can easily spot AI-generated text, and she wouldn’t want to compromise the quality of her work by resorting to it. “Integrity is important to me,” she states. The importance she attaches to the authenticity of her productions is undoubtedly an essential ingredient in her appeal.
Queen Cindyrella’s AI avatar in various generated animations.
🌱 An organic growth
To market herself as a Femdom model is hard as it is, but to do so with an AI avatar is even harder. Surprisingly, Cindy isn’t too bothered with promotion. “I don’t have any active marketing strategies,” she openly admits. “Maybe that would be more profitable but I want to stay genuine,” she adds. She ran into hurdles in the past for her use of an AI avatar. “Not all websites allow the use of AI,” she warns. “I had an issue with one website that deleted my account as they considered AI against their terms.”
Some platforms, however, have welcomed the use of AI. Cindy thrives particularly on LoyalFans, a fetish-friendly content subscription platform that has attracted many Femdom models in recent years. Cindy relies on submissive men discovering her organically there. “Most of my traffic is coming from LoyalFans, where subs find me either by keywords or because they liked my clips,” she explains.
Cindy makes most of her Femdom revenue from the sale of her erotic productions. “I get a big part from clips,” she shares, even though the clips don’t attract everyone. “When it comes to clip sales, AI is still a niche, even if it’s getting more and more popular,” she notes. The rest of her bag comes from “tips”—donations from her fans—and so-called “drains”.
A “drain” is an activity in financial domination where the woman repeatedly instructs the submissive man to send her money. These repeated transactions cumulatively amount to a financial drain of the man’s resources. Submissive men who like drains find erotic thrill in the woman’s repeated commands to hand over money and in the uncertainty about her requests. In these activities, the elements of manipulation and mind control, which are Cindy’s specialty, serve to heighten the erotic sensations.
“It still amazes me sometimes how much power I have over subs, even if they don’t see me,” Cindy exclaims. “Some well put words in the right moment work magic.” This magic is evident in those seemingly haphazard events that make Cindy a lot of money. “Sometimes, a random sub would send a lot and deactivate [his account],” she remarks. “It happens once in a while, sometimes several times per month.”
🍽️ A creative menu
In addition to her clips, Cindy takes commissions—known in the Femdom world as “customs”—and offers private chats. Her fans can order “ignore sessions” where they send her messages and she only replies with dismissive emojis, as well as “goon sessions” where she continually sends nudes of her AI avatar to the sub as he masturbates until he “goes dumb” for her.
Cindy also sells “edgeware,” a computer program created for her by one of her fans. This program pretends to be a virus that spams your screen with all things Cindyrella, keeping you on the edge as you masturbate, hence the name. “The edgeware is a ‘malware’ that makes my pictures, links, and voice messages ‘invade’ your computer,” she explains. But the program isn’t actual malware for your computer; it’s just a fantasy. “It doesn’t actually harm it,” Cindy clarifies.
As part of her creative menu of offerings, she also sells a “dash drain” Android game, made for her by one of her fans as well. “It’s a simple game,” says Cindy, “where you collect falling dollars and you’re supposed to send the amount you collected.” Though not the most popular thing admittedly, Cindy likes offering it just for the novelty. “It’s a nice additional way of standing out,” she notes.
Then, there’s her AI bot, which subs can purchase and chat with. “The AI bot is a trained chatbot, fully automated,” Cindy explains. “It’s a bot you can create on a website by describing its ‘personality’ and adding sample conversations,” she expounds. Cindy used real chats she had with her fans as data when creating the bot. Its responses are also continually influenced and shaped in the course of a conversation, tailoring the experience to each user’s interests. “It learns from interactions that the sub has with it,” Cindy notes.
The bot is also equipped with a highly realistic but artificial version of Cindy’s voice, likewise generated from samples of her audios. With this voice, her fans are not only able to make her speak her responses out loud, but they can also have astoundingly realistic audio calls with the character. I have no doubt that many of Cindy’s fans have used this feature for an experience of erotic humiliation in real-time. All the chats with the bot remain private, of course, and Cindy doesn’t have access to them. The platform hosting the chatbot is open to everyone and it appears to be remarkably permissive when it comes to conversations of a sexual nature.
Queen Cindyrella’s AI chatbot has a special request for you…
🔮 An unpredictable future
Like many women in this online space, Femdom isn’t Cindy’s main occupation. “It’s been a side hustle,” she confesses, “but it has become almost as important as my vanilla job.” She dedicates a couple of hours everyday to work on this side hustle, and she thinks she might fully dedicate herself to it one day if it becomes sustainable.
Her time is spent not only writing scripts and making clips, but also reading about psychology and hypnosis with the goal of refining her skills as a dominatrix. The creative nature of her work means she has to be on the constant lookout for novel ideas. “I inspire myself with other creators, of course,” she says, “but sometimes ideas can come from random observations, an article or a book I read.”
Since Cindy draws a hard line when it comes to using her real image, the AI avatar provides her the convenient freedom to explore Femdom with peace of mind. Her use of AI technology demonstrates that the barrier of entry to being an online dominatrix has been lowered. Women who don’t wish to tie their real image to online adult activities—whatever their reasons may be—now have powerful and accessible tools at their disposal.
Only time will tell how the Femdom world will evolve, what place generative AI will have in it, and what role adjacent technologies—like virtual reality—might have in its future. Between the real dominatrix and the fully artificial character, Cindy occupies an intermediate position as a hybrid, bringing an AI avatar to life through her real voice. If AI avatars break into the mainstream in the submissive male market, perhaps even traditional Femdom models will start experimenting with productions featuring AI versions of themselves. For the time being, however, AI avatars remain a niche delicacy among submissive men.
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