Reports of submissive kinks in men from the early literature on human sexuality. In this entry, a case of a man with the financial domination kink reported by Iwan Bloch.
A fantasy i once had was sparked off by a woman who i regularly saw in my area. She asked people for money, or, offered stolen items for money. I began to admire her strident, street-wise hussles. She once tricked me into buying a watch for £10. I just wanted something of hers, whilst helping her financially. Needless to say it stopped when I got it home. Yet, i kept looking at this useless timekeeper and privately thanking her. I wanted her to exploit me. A fantasy built up in my head where i would buy her dinner (anything she wanted) and i would present her with a contract. I would say "mull over it while I buy you another (expensive) drink"
She would look astonished, as i tell her all she need to do is sign it.
The contract would be something like: i promise to deliver, by hand, £50 per week, in all weathers, to __________ she will never have to do anything in return.
Then we would both sign it together.
Unfortunately, i never saw her again, despite spending weeks looking for her.
It was Her energetic forcefulness i so admired. I didn't know Her circumstances, but felt She deserved much more for having to lower herself, begging to survive. Part of my fantasy would also being denied sex, being ignored, with payments expected as Her right. (She would be annoyed if i was late with Her envelope or be with other people, snatching Her payment without even looking at me.
I can see paying to be a submissive or paying for sex at all. It’s such a turn off to me. That’s all that most dominant really care about these days. I have yet to meet one that didn’t care about that first and foremost. I have no interest in that. The story doesn’t make sense because prostitutes always want the money upfront. It’s the rules. I’ve only ever been with agirl on my 21st birthday in Las Vegas and I couldn’t do it. I felt too awkward to have sex with her so we just cuddled and talked. That was the first time and last time I ever attempted to pay for sex.
A fantasy i once had was sparked off by a woman who i regularly saw in my area. She asked people for money, or, offered stolen items for money. I began to admire her strident, street-wise hussles. She once tricked me into buying a watch for £10. I just wanted something of hers, whilst helping her financially. Needless to say it stopped when I got it home. Yet, i kept looking at this useless timekeeper and privately thanking her. I wanted her to exploit me. A fantasy built up in my head where i would buy her dinner (anything she wanted) and i would present her with a contract. I would say "mull over it while I buy you another (expensive) drink"
She would look astonished, as i tell her all she need to do is sign it.
The contract would be something like: i promise to deliver, by hand, £50 per week, in all weathers, to __________ she will never have to do anything in return.
Then we would both sign it together.
Unfortunately, i never saw her again, despite spending weeks looking for her.
Thanks for sharing this fantasy. It sounds like the ripoff element was prominent in it. What attracted you to this particular woman?
It was Her energetic forcefulness i so admired. I didn't know Her circumstances, but felt She deserved much more for having to lower herself, begging to survive. Part of my fantasy would also being denied sex, being ignored, with payments expected as Her right. (She would be annoyed if i was late with Her envelope or be with other people, snatching Her payment without even looking at me.
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I can see paying to be a submissive or paying for sex at all. It’s such a turn off to me. That’s all that most dominant really care about these days. I have yet to meet one that didn’t care about that first and foremost. I have no interest in that. The story doesn’t make sense because prostitutes always want the money upfront. It’s the rules. I’ve only ever been with agirl on my 21st birthday in Las Vegas and I couldn’t do it. I felt too awkward to have sex with her so we just cuddled and talked. That was the first time and last time I ever attempted to pay for sex.
I suppose the man in this case was paying the prostitute to act out his fantasy of having his money taken away from him.